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Culinary Curiosity – Wedding Traditions

Ever wondered what the traditions are in other countries when it comes to weddings? Do others revere wedding cake as much as we do? What would you serve if you wanted to incorporate some delicacies from other parts of the world? We’ve put together a summary of sorts for sumptuous samples and tasty traditions from all corners of the globe! In purely alphabetical order, here is what we found:

Brazil: The cookies served at weddings are called Casadinhos, meaning “married.” The cookies form a sandwich, held together by marmalade, honey, jam, or cream. They are then rolled in sugar and wrapped individually, after which they are called, “Bem Casados,” or “well married.” They symbolize the sweet union of bride and groom.

Brazilian Casadinhos

Bulgaria: In Bulgaria, it’s the groom’s mom who greets the bride at the party with wine and a loaf of honey-drizzled Pitka, the “butter bread.” The bride, her mother, and other women in the family bake on the Thursday before the wedding. The rising dough represents the growing family, and, at the reception, the couple tears it in a wishbone-like contest; whoever gets the larger half is said to have the upper hand in the family.

Bulgarian Pitka

China: Wedding banquets in China are grand events, and usually consist of eight courses. Peking Duck is a staple at most Chinese wedding celebrations. The duck is highly symbolic and meant to represent happiness for the new couple. Ducks are known to mate for life. Served whole, it implies the completeness of the new couple.

Chinese Peking Duck

France: For the French newlyweds, a must-have is Croquembouche. It is a work of art, and at the same time, a delightful “tree” of profiteroles. Each little ball of dough is filled with crème patissiere, bound together by threads of caramel. Each piece has to be made individually, and then stacked so as to look good and be sturdy at the same time. No one wants a fallen Croquembouche on their wedding day.

Greece: Savory rules the wedding day in Greece. A bread salad is the go-to meal for the wedding feast. January and June are considered ideal times to get married because they were ruled by Hera, the goddess of marriage and fertility. This hearty first course includes lettuce, sea scallops, crab, calamari, and mussels.

Greek Bread Salad

India: Even with the brilliant colors, the flowers, the henna, the veils, and the music, food still stands strong at an Indian nuptial celebration. Lasting up to a week, the wedding celebration is a marathon! Guests dine on Naan, curried dishes of sorts, roasted potatoes, and vegetables. Post wedding, alcoholic beverages are included, and sweets are incorporated. While there is no wedding cake, the couple feed each other bites of honey and yogurt.

Indian Naan and Curried Dishes

Italy: Of course, Italians know how to celebrate! In addition to the antipasti, which is a staple of Italian cuisine, guests at weddings are served “bowties.” These are twists of fried bread covered in powdered sugar, and are believed to bring good luck. Often, guests are also given gift boxes with candied almonds to represent the sweet and bitter (better or worse) aspects of life.

Japan: One of Japan’s most famous wedding rituals is called the San-San-Kudo, during which the bride and groom take turns sipping sake from three different cups of varying sizes stacked on top of each other. The first three sips represent the three important couples: the bride and groom and each of their parents. Ku, means nine and is considered a lucky number. This moment seals the marriage and represents the newly formed and unbreakable bond.

Japanese San-San-Kudo and Korean Yak Shik

Korea: In Korea, many of the foods served on the wedding day have direct symbolic meaning. Long noodles, called Kuk Soo, are for long life. The main dish at a wedding reception is known as a Kook Soo Sang, or “noodle banquet.” Made of wheat flour in a light, anchovy-stock broth, Janchi-Guksu are topped with foods in the colors that represent the five natural elements which are the key to Eastern medicine — wood, fire, earth, metal, and water. Often those are green zucchini for wood, reddish carrot for fire, an egg to cover both yellow for earth and white for metal, and black seaweed for water. A dessert called Yak Shik is a sticky rice ball sweetened with brown sugar and speckled with raisins, pine nuts, and chestnuts, which symbolize children. Brides enjoy having chestnuts and dates thrown at them, and they try to catch them in their dresses. The number they catch indicates how many children they will have.

Sweden: In this country, special occasions, especially nuptials, are celebrated with a Prinsesstarta, or princess cake. This confection is made of layer cake and consists of alternating layers of cake, jam, pastry cream, and whipped cream. The whole cake is covered in an overlayer of marzipan, which is traditionally dyed green. Small details such as powdered sugar, icing swirls, and a pink rose are common to add for embellishment.

United States: A wedding cake is the ultimate reception dessert in the vast majority of America. It’s a frosted fertility symbol, a combination of flour (usually made of wheat, a cross-cultural sign of abundance) and sugar, which is associated with wishes for a sweet life. The tiered cake we know today may date back to 17th century France, when a baker frosted a tower of sweet buns, starting a trend; or to 18th century London, when cakemaker William Rich created a cake inspired by the spires of St. Bride’s Church in order to impress his true love. 

American Wedding Cake (Photo Credit: epagaFOTO)

When consulting with reception venues and caterers, it helps to know what capabilities are available. We reached out to our friends at the Kansas City Marriott Downtown, and the response was very reassuring. According to Dustin Hocumbrink, director of sales and marketing, “With more than 35 years’ experience, Executive Chef Ronnie Kotz has the palate and talents to deliver a phenomenal culinary experience customized to a variety of cultures. But if an event requires a special touch that we need assistance with, we are also happy to discuss involving an outside specialty caterer. It is always exciting for our events team, banquet service staff, and culinarians to find ways to incorporate beautiful, colorful décor and international cuisines into our special event packages.” 

Also featured in the July 10, 2021 issue of The Independent
By Anne Potter Russ

Anne Potter Russ

Anne is thrilled to be working with The Independent again, and even happier to be with some great people. Having served as editor from 2005 to 2009, it is a pleasure to be able to connect with the readers of this timeless magazine. Anne and her husband, Norbert, live in south Leawood, and have two grown kids, Diana and Nick, as well as two rambunctious dogs.



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